What Makes You a Man?

What makes you a Real Man? Is it when you had a hot girl friend? is it when you had a date last night with a girl who have large hooters? Is it when you dated the most popular girl in the campus? Is it when you had a night with a hot girl with a sexy body and hot legs? Does it really takes you to be tough? Is it your large triceps and biceps? Or your hot abs? Dude, what does it takes to be a real man?

Let's face it. We're just humans. We are weak in flesh. But we can control it. "IF" we want to. I hate guys who measures their masculinity by how many hot girls they've dated. I know. Don't be hypocrite dude. You want to date Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie, Paris Hilton and whoever hottest girls in earth. But after that, what's next? After more than ten years, that hot body will fade. Your muscles will sag either. You'll get old. You'll look OLD. And those hot girls will look like your granny.

Couple of beers in the club. Dance with this hottie and had a great fun night. But is she the girl that you want for the rest of your lives? Is that hot sexy body can take care of you and your family in the future? That girl with hot tan can make you eternally happy? or just a night? Think buddy. Will you be happy?

Having a partner isn't just about good looks. It's all about inside. What you cannot see, but what you can feel. How it treats you and not your flesh. Good looks are just a bonus. But what you need is a person that can accept you how shameful you are. A person that can be there always even at your worst. The person that will catch you when you're messed up. That person that can smile on you even you throw the most corny joke ever heard on earth. That person that will do everything just to meet your needs first after him/her. That person that can love you no matter how bad looking you are when you wake up. That person that can kiss you even when you have your morning breathe. The one that can say you look beautiful even when you look like a mess, because for him/her you are the most beautiful person in the world. That person that will always understand how you feel and won't judge your feelings. The person that will give everything for you even if its the most significant thing for him/her. And the person that you want to keep for the rest of your lives.

Haven't you found her? or him? Well, it takes a man to find that person. So go and find that someone. :)